Yay..I think....I don't know what is going on anymore! #girlprobs

"Vince-The Roadside Mechanic" (vincent-becker)
09/11/2014 at 19:13 • Filed to: None

So yesterday I told you about that girl who I liked and was being a bitch to me. Guess what women are fucking crazy (no offense to women) Today she was crazy nice to me asking about my day and shit like that. WTF is going on!!!!!!!!!

DISCUSSION (61)

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:18

They are not all crazy. Don't get bummed. Ignore her and talk to someone else.

treesmakewater > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:18

Been there, done that. GET AWAY, get away before the confusion and feels tear you apart!

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:19

Well I am kind of happy. Also if they are all crazy what is the difference if I talk to some other crazy girl?

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:20

You told us this? Didn't see it, not sure I want to get involved here. Oh well! Don't you just love it when that happens?

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:20

But that's what I'm saying. They're not all crazy

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > treesmakewater
09/11/2014 at 19:20

It isn't tearing me apart....yet.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
09/11/2014 at 19:22

Yeah

here it is- http://oppositelock.jalopnik.com/i-too-have-hom…

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:23

I don't believe you.

treesmakewater > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:24

and that is precisely the reason why you should get out now.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > treesmakewater
09/11/2014 at 19:26

You have a point but I want to dig into this a little deeper.

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:27

LOL I swear

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:28

Haha and this proves where the problem lies. You are like me - you like to play with fire.

We can't blame crazy chicks for fucking with our heads when we are the ones that don't run away before we get super hurt.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:29

One question.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:29

I honestly believe you are lying to me LOL.

treesmakewater > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:30

that is exactly what I did

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:30

Yep.

treesmakewater > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:31

I don't either

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
09/11/2014 at 19:31

Yes?

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:31

LOL I'm not lying. There are plenty of sane girls out there. But some guys (like myself) tend to only get attracted to the crazy ones. Maybe you're the same way.

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:32

We need a support group for only going after crazy girls and spending too much money/time on cars

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:32

Yep. They fuck with my head and it only pulls me in deeper.

nFamousCJ - Keeper of Stringbean, Gengars and a Deezul > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:32

Kinja'd!!!

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:33

Isn't that Oppo?

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:33

Try to get out of this cycle before you get old like me. I let so many girls fuck with my head that I think I have permanent damage, lol

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > nFamousCJ - Keeper of Stringbean, Gengars and a Deezul
09/11/2014 at 19:34

LOL

McChiken116 - Patrick H. > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:34

No woman is crazy, people have off days, you're super young, things get better, learn to respect women as people.

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:35

LOL

Yeah I guess it kind of is

Except it doesn't help with cars cause it makes us spend more money and time on cars

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:35

I won't go in too deep. I just want to see the tip of the iceberg.

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:35

Haha that's exactly what I said with this one girl. Then we dated off and on for over 2 years. And it was bad. I still have nightmares.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:36

Is. She. Bipolar?

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:36

I think I am you.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
09/11/2014 at 19:37

Haha I don't think so.

Manuél Ferrari > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:37

LOL X-D

e36Jeff now drives a ZHP > McChiken116 - Patrick H.
09/11/2014 at 19:38

I have the exact opposite view. Everyone, regardless of gender is crazy. Including me. The trick is to find someone who's crazy aligns to your crazy so you aren't bothered by it. besides, sane people are boring.

Mr. Ontop, No Strokes, No Smokes...Goes Fast. > Manuél Ferrari
09/11/2014 at 19:41

And, by talking to another girl, that one will probably want more of your attention.,,,unless girls have changed since I was a teen....OR, she won't care even a little.

Manuél Ferrari > Mr. Ontop, No Strokes, No Smokes...Goes Fast.
09/11/2014 at 19:42

Haha yeah I thought about that. If that happens he will need resolve to not get sucked back in.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 19:47

Okay, just checking; no offense to any on here that is. I have a friend who is and she can have her ups and downs sometimes, but not as sporadic and as random as that. IDK, maybe she's trying to get your attention with sheer stupidity?

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
09/11/2014 at 19:55

That could be it but I still don't know. I will see what tomorrow brings.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 20:00

That's the best thing you can do for now; I think it's too soon to jump to any conclusions.

OPPOsaurus WRX > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 20:18

she'll be back to crazy in about a month. It will go away again but it will probably show up again about a month after that

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > OPPOsaurus WRX
09/11/2014 at 20:21

Meh I will take it month by month.

Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 20:22

I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say go for it. You're young. As long as you don't feel physically threatened, give it a shot.

norskracer98-ExploringTheOutback > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 20:52

But does she cross the Vicky Mendoza Diagonal?

Protip: Don't take relationship advice from me. I'm 16.

FriskyDingo > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 20:54

Either she's bipolar or fucking with you or she likes you.I might have less understanding of women than you do...

Drakkon- Most Glorious and Upright Person of Genius > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 21:32

That's the plan.

Want me to really blow your mind?

1) She's not evil. Maybe. She may be evil, but hopefully you would actually figure that out by now. Let's start with the idea that she isn't evil becuase I bet she isn't.

2) If she's into you, even though she's being a bitch, she wants you to succeed. Believe it or not, she's not on the other team. She wants you to win, but you have to earn it. I

3) She's testing you. She instinctively, not in her conscious mind, but down in her biology wants to know that you are the cool confident guy you're showing her. If you roll the clock back 15,000 years, a women could see a man who was strong and could keep himself and others alive and that was good enough to choose him. Today it's a lot more complicated. We don't have to do the tasks of survival every day. She has to have a way to find out if you're the real deal.

4) the female does the choosing. This is what actually made Darwin so controversial. Not playing God, not religion, but that the male struts around trying to be impressive and the female (yes, mere weak feinting Victorian FEMALES) does the choosing. Pea cocks, lions, crazy colored male birds say look at me, look at me! The female says no, no, no, no, maybe, no, no, yes.

5) Give her a little negative body language. This does not mean treat her badly. It does not mean be rude or condescending or mean. I means keep your body turned away from her. Don't always look at her. Don't lean toward her when you talk. Be positive with your talk, but don't always turn toward her. This is called 'negative body language.' Look that up. If she does something you really like, turn toward her. If she compliments you turn toward her, but make her earn it. Then when the conversation turns, lean back and turn back away.

6) If you want an outcome, you're losing. If you want her to like you and it end in a date, you're losing. Let yourself go of if this works out or not. Stop trying. Be yourself, enjoy spending time with her, blow her off when she's being bitchy, then really deep deep down in your soul, do not give a fuck if this works out or not. The term psychologist use is be outcome-independent. If you aren't sure what that means, look it up.

7) you can ignore most of what I wrote above if you do this: DON'T SHOW NEEDINESS! Ever. Not just to her, to anybody on a normal day.

If you have buddys that call women 'targets' or 'bitches' some other non-human word like that... drop them like a hot rock. Your word create your thoughts and your thoughts create your actions and your actions create your habits. Dudes, bros and the like that talk about and see women as 'targets' are building a lifetime of bad habits. Find new friends.

jkm7680 > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 21:38

It's her time of the month.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > jkm7680
09/11/2014 at 22:34

I think your right.

TheD0k_2many toys 2little time > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 23:01

Kinja'd!!!

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > TheD0k_2many toys 2little time
09/11/2014 at 23:05

I highly doubt that.

TheD0k_2many toys 2little time > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/11/2014 at 23:07

You never know. Also i have no clue about women either

JKER > Manuél Ferrari
09/12/2014 at 00:35

False. Sometimes it just takes longer for you to see their crazy side.

Manuél Ferrari > JKER
09/12/2014 at 01:11

LOL. But I've learned that you can tell the crazy right away. The signs are there. You just have to know what to look for. Gets easier with time...

JKER > Manuél Ferrari
09/12/2014 at 01:23

I would think that it does get easier with time, but I've dated plentyyy and even this past summer it took me a few weeks to realize how crazy this girl really was. I've decided that the best path at this point is to start going for cougars haha

Manuél Ferrari > JKER
09/12/2014 at 01:33

Hahaha. Find some rich cougar who will buy you a car.

Dude it took me over 2 years to realize just how crazy this girl was because I was stupid. Now looking back I see all the signs and they were so obvious.

When we really like a girl we don't look for the signs because we don't want to see them

JKER > Manuél Ferrari
09/12/2014 at 02:17

Aww man, that's the worst. And your last statement is right on.

Manuél Ferrari > JKER
09/12/2014 at 02:22

Thanks. We all got the war stories.

I would tell you the crazy stuff she got me to do for her but I'm too embarrassed to say. Let's just say she took full advantage of how in love with her I was.

Knowing what I know now I feel really lucky. I dodged a bullet. It's better that she took advantage of me but didn't fall for me. My life would be terrible if she did cause she's crazy. I'm much better off now that she met some dude who is like 25 years older than her that she's engaged to. Old guy can deal with the crazy, haha

JKER > Manuél Ferrari
09/12/2014 at 02:32

Yowza. I've sworn off relationships for awhile, just focusing on improving my own life and doing whatever the hell I want to do. Much less complicated and enjoyable for now

Manuél Ferrari > JKER
09/12/2014 at 02:44

That's a good plan. Have fun. If someone really cool comes along then you can go back to them

66671 - 200 [METRIC] my dash > Manuél Ferrari
09/12/2014 at 08:27

http://youtu.be/dgHdOTR6htc?t=…

Manuél Ferrari > 66671 - 200 [METRIC] my dash
09/12/2014 at 11:43

Love that clip. So funny.

Trevor Slattery, ACTOR > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic
09/26/2014 at 14:59

Actually he is. They are all crazy. You need to find one who is the kind of crazy you can work with.